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Daily promises for couples
Heart Promises are three sentences. I’ll let my partner know when I’m thinking of them. I’ll share how I really feel. I’ll take one mindful minute each day to reflect. You make them when you first set up HeartTap, and the app invites you to make them again every morning.
Nothing checks whether you kept them, and that is on purpose. The promises are not a task list. They are a short ritual at the start of the day that points you at the three things the rest of the app is for: a status or a drawing for the first, an honest answer for the second, and the daily reflection for the third.
Three promises, the same every day
To let your partner know when you are thinking of them, to share how you really feel, and to take one mindful minute each day to reflect. They do not change, which is what lets them become a habit instead of something new to read each morning.
Press and hold to promise
Each promise is made by pressing and holding a button, one after another. It takes a few seconds, and it is deliberately harder to do absent-mindedly than a tap.
All three or none
The day’s promise counts only once you have held through all three. Stopping after one or two records nothing, so having promised today always means the whole set.
A morning reminder you control
An optional reminder arrives in the morning at a time you choose. It appears only when you have a linked partner and have not yet promised that day, and it can be switched off on its own without touching your other notifications.
Each of you promises for yourself
Promises are personal. Each partner makes their own, and one of you promising does not tick it off for the other.
Frequently asked questions
What are the three Heart Promises?
I’ll let my partner know when I’m thinking of them. I’ll share how I really feel. I’ll take one mindful minute each day to reflect.
Do I have to make the promises every day?
No. They are an invitation. You can close the screen, hide the promises for the day, or turn off the morning reminder entirely.
Does the app check whether I kept them?
No. HeartTap records that you made the promises, not whether you lived up to them. They work as a prompt at the start of the day, and the rest of the app gives you the means: a status or a drawing, an honest answer to a question, and the daily reflection.
Do the promises need a partner?
Yes. The promises appear once you are linked with a partner, since all three are about them.
Put them on your home screen tonight
Free to download on iPhone and Android. Link with your partner in under a minute, then send your first photo, drawing or check-in.