Feature
Questions for couples
The problem with question lists is not the questions. It is that whoever answers second adjusts to the first answer, usually in the direction of agreement, and two people end up discovering they think exactly alike about everything. This is almost never true and is the reason most couples get one good evening out of a list and nothing after.
HeartTap fixes it with one toggle. Turn on Reveal after partner answer and neither of you sees the other’s response until you have both written yours. Nobody edits toward the other person, because there is nothing to edit toward.
Over 2000 questions
Categorised from light and flirty through to genuinely deep, so you can pick something that matches the evening rather than working down a list in order.
Answers hidden until you have both replied
The Reveal after partner answer toggle keeps both responses sealed until each of you has written one. It is a small mechanic that changes what people are willing to say.
Answer in your own time
Neither of you has to be free at the same moment. Write your answer when you have a minute, and the reveal happens when the second one lands, which makes it work across time zones.
Keep it or share it
Answers can post to your shared timeline where they can be replied to, or stay just between the two of you as a private exchange.
Frequently asked questions
How does the hidden answer feature work?
Turn on Reveal after partner answer before you submit. Your answer is stored but not shown to your partner until they have written theirs, and then both appear at once. It removes the pull toward agreeing that makes most question exercises useless.
How many questions are there?
Over 2000, across categories from light and flirty to deep conversation. They are delivered one at a time rather than as a list, which is what stops it turning into an interview.
Can we answer at different times?
Yes, and that is the normal case. Neither of you needs to be free simultaneously. The reveal happens whenever the second answer arrives, which makes this work well for long distance couples across time zones.
Where can I see some of these questions?
The questions section of this site has several hundred, grouped by situation, that you can read without installing anything. The app carries a much larger library and adds the delivery and the hidden answers.
Put them on your home screen tonight
Free to download on iPhone and Android. Link with your partner in under a minute, then send your first photo, drawing or check-in.